One of the most frequent questions I get asked is, “how much sex should we be having?
Keeping your sex life hot over the course of years (or even your entire lifetime! You want a partner who will make an active effort to keep making room for your sex life, even when it feels like it’s the two of you against the world.
You need to be able to talk about awkward or uncomfortable moments, and about the good times too! You also want your partner to be active about addressing problems.
If the two of you aren’t able to talk about sex openly and honestly, it’s not a good sign of things to come. Perhaps the single most important characteristic to look for in a sexual partner is their willingness to put effort into keeping your sex life interesting, romantic, and intimate. Even the most sexually compatible couples are going to argue about sex from time to time.
We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions?