I don't date here because if you accidentally get a kid, it seems like you will be introducing your entire female side of your new family into your apartment. I'm a white Brit heading over there soon hopefully, to either Hanoi or Da Nang, and I was wondering what dating would be like for westerners and whether we have an advantage in the dating game? I'm decent with girls, though not the smoothest, but I'm confident enough to ask a girl out.
Everywhere I go, I see like 10 people in 1 apartment. That being said, I like Viet girls because they are very caring and affectionate (soft) and well mannered when they are young. I've heard some guys say you don't have to, girls will come to you, but then say these girls are OK to be with for a bit but not date. As a Vietnamese-American, I speak of experience of others.
Which is odd and fascinating from an American perspective, where late 20's is prime single time.They think about it for a day and decide that sounds awesome..now. She treats you nicely so that maybe you can rely on her when you need help.You would feel reluctant to pay for a dinner or two (well it's cheap right? Maybe she asks to exchange information so she can contact you when you go back home.As a 20 y/o VK I dont want to make any mistakes or look stupid. I think it all depends on the girl's circle and her background.Girls that have studied/lived abroad, especially in Europe or US, tend to push marriage off much later.