Therefore, a man doesn't need to bring up TS issues on the first date. I keep using the expression, "a TS with the sensibilities of a GG..." for a reason, to distinguish the TS who wants to be treated as a woman, who fully identifies with being a woman, from those who cater to the submissive male crowd, the bi-male crowd and the thrill-seeking crowd for money. If he's just looking for a blowjob from a TS, or wants to suck some TS dick, cool. If he wants to get something real going, then forget about the escorts. Those girls get lied to every hour of every day and have heard it all.
Instead, he should focus on her, her life and her interests. Doing things this way will likely make a very big impression. The genuine TS -- one with the sensibilities of a GG -- won't likely be promoting herself as a shemale any more than a GG seeking a real relationship will be promoting herself as an "escort." That means, one who advertises herself as a shemale or shemale escort likely has a viewpoint not very compatible with developing a sound relationship. They aren't likely to believe that the average Joe asking for a simple date is serious.
They seek to deny (to themselves, probably) that sex with a person who has both tits and a dick is homosexual in nature, when the guy is sucking that dick or getting fucked by it.
She has endured a lot of pain and derision over gender issues, and has spent a lot of money trying to correct a mistake by nature. It's not that hard to do and she will greatly appreciate it.
Reading the articles at this website will satisfy your curiosity about what a TS is, what she needs and how she thinks. Women love to be "taken" by a masculine man, since it is the act of erotic surrender that centers them, that makes them feel like "a real woman." Therefore, hardly any TS with the sensibilities of a woman will be looking to "top" a guy or will be looking for a guy who wants to suck her dick.
Definitions: A "pre-op transsexual" is a woman in the wrong body, one who has breasts (through taking female hormones and/or breast implants), and a cock. A "non-op transsexual" means that the TS will not have SRS. I will be referring to both categories of TS as pre-op in this article, since it is a more widely used expression.1. The key thing to bear in mind here is: WOMAN in a man's body.
Some careful dialogue with the guy usually uncovers the fact that he was very attracted to the TS's femininity. What a pre-op transsexual woman wants in a guy is what most any woman wants in a guy. If a guy wants to develop a relationship with a TS (think this through carefully) how should he approach her?