So when you say kink, would you say that's the more acceptable word and that's the more common word used for this kind of stuff today or is kind of the cool word? kids call it." [John Baku]: I wish I knew what the cool kids did.
I don't know what the hipsters call it but, I tend to use the word kinky just because it just doesn't bring negative connotations but, it is all encompassing.
You use it pretty much the same way as you would Facebook groups, and so on.
John talks today about everything that there is in Fet Life and how it evolved over time, why it came into being.
If you think about it, a lot of research is biased.
Why this book is really cool is it really goes into the nit-and-gritty of what people's real desires are.
If you ever wondered what people get up to in BDSM - bondage, domination, sadist, masochist - today is where you're going to learn about how it all goes down.
We’re going to be looking into many, many more sexual fantasies, and fetishes, and kink.
I've slowly been moving towards using the word kinky or kink. It just, sometimes for some people the word fetish invokes like, "Oh, this person must be sick because they have a fetish.
So to me, they're more like kinks, things that turn you on. It's just that I'm as familiar with the language as you in that a fetish isn't the best name for this kind of stuff.