All of these are products of her story, and you love them. You just might not be able to get enough; and yes that can be frightening, but it can also be amazing.
You love them so much that you proudly tell her story for her; you tell it to your friends, family, colleagues and yourself in the mirror. If you like what's in front of you, take it off the market.
I'm not talking about the woman you're too scared to talk to.
I'm talking about the woman that you dream of, finally find and chase down, but then are too afraid to date.
Why, yes, you now have my attention because I'm now curious about your psyche.
There is a common misconception among women that men are intimidated by success and that they might scare off potential suitors if they become too two self-sufficient.
But I can assure you, from a guys perspective, this is just not the case.
As a buddy of mine puts it: “I don’t want her to need me, but I do want her to rely on me, as I want to be able to rely on her.”There’s something about a woman who is doing some cool things with her own life that makes me want to get my own act together.
Not because anybody is playing savior to anybody else, but because of the opposite: I know that in a healthy relationship there’s a sense of equality—better yet, a sense of complementarity.