Do not spam her with messages or send abusive and threatening messages if she doesn’t agree to date you.I shouldn’t have to say this but some men are idiots.Most women will message me within 24 hours of the transition request.If you haven’t heard from her within this timeframe a couple of things might have happened: Once she picks up the conversation on Whatsapp, save her name and number in your address book, and continue vibing.Good example 1 Notice how I only gave her one option to meet me and she was busy.Luckily I had met her in a bar, not online, and she liked me enough to give me a second chance by suggesting Thursday instead.
She knows you are about to ask her out, so will make it clear when she is available.
Tinder, Happn and these other fancy apps hadn’t been invented. After completing my profile I sat back and waited for the messages to come pouring in. Just like in real life it was up to me as the man to make the approach. I don’t care what app or dating site you are on, as a man you need to be initiating conversations with tens of girls before you get a response. Below I’m going to outline a strategy you can use to ensure you are not one of those men, and increase the number of women you get from online dating to a first date. It is your role as a man to ask her out and either be rejected or win the prize. That shit is not only needy but it’s also incredibly creepy.
Right now I would guess my response rate to an initial message is about 5%. Because if you get a response to your opening message then your odds of getting a first date are excellent, especially if you do it right. I’m not going to teach you what to send in an opening message, or how to engage in the conversation. And if you follow the process your chances of being rejected will dramatically decrease (you will still be rejected though…many times…deal with it). Chatting online is not about: The purpose of chatting online is to make her feel attracted and safe enough to meet you in person.
You can see when she is online and has seen your messages. Here’s what most men do, and what you should never, EVER do again: When you’re ready to propose the first date, do it in a similar fashion to the transition proposal. It is possible though, but only expect that response 5% of the time. When I don’t use the line above, I’ll go with something like “Where in London are you based?
Therefore, once you get her into conversation, keep responding! The only exception is if she is about to head away on holiday. I’m not a fan of overly long messaging back and forth so let’s meet up in ‘real life’ (scary I know) and find out more about each other”.