But the reason I say it is that it’s something I would have said years ago in an early relationship. The thing is, as I had more relationships –more falling in love and then eventually the break-up, more ups, more downs, more experience — my perspective changed and the way I was in relationships changed too… Sure, people get jaded by breakups, sometimes for a month, sometimes for several months (or longer), but the ups and the downs of relationships are both really good things.My point is that in the moments he’s with you, he probably does mean it.It’s better to just think about what’s happening and where you’re coming from in all of it. But when they consistently do the same thing and it is something that just doesn’t work for me and I feel like it’s reasonable for me to expect it, I do bring it up. He said he loved me, bought me a ring ( not the ring!
Let me tell you, nothing makes me angrier faster than having a woman tell me I “always” do something (whatever it is) wrong or that I “never” do something (whatever it is) right. He said that he was in a 10 year on and off relationship with his son mother and they were engaged to be married. He moved out and they broke it off wedding and all. He also mentioned that I don’t seem to show him as much love as he show me and that he has loss himself trying to be everything for me, being late for work from talking to me. He works like 15 hours a day for the past 3 months . But what I want to say, that I am not feel like living in this world now.
And no, “clues” to a guy does not include a facial expression, voice tone or some kind of hint. Bottom line: If you show your boyfriend exactly how to make you happy, he will do his best to do it. He still call me everyday and gets mad when I talk to other guys. It all seems to me as a really bad joke from Nature…and a very bad lie, delusion and fraud from hormones, emotions and everything that make a woman have feelings as a woman yet when she is small and growing up….is a trap for her…since a little girl when she believes that once when she is a lady her dreams about her and her husband (love) will fulfill…and she search from one man to another and will never find what she REALLY NEEDS…
To a man, a woman who is thoroughly happy with him is a beautiful woman. He said I should give him and myself time before I go jump into other relationship . She will learn new rules of men´s games, reading articles about how men are thinking, feeling to make it better, but it is only blind HOPE for her, it hepls only for a while – she just understand him but she still doesn ´t det what she needs…then she just learn how to supress her needs inside of her and try not to suffer so bad…but it is not like true enjoying life, just surviving…because it is not NATURAL for her to behave like that and she suffer, some of them bedome ill, get cancr etc…only men can heal it and stop us from suffering…but they will not do that, because they have 10000 reasons, at first that it is not NATURAL for man to behave just a woman needs….
Can you give me a reason that would help me understand why this keeps happening? I would say go for understanding, don’t go for resolution. I need to hear things like I love you and miss you more often then he is willing to say, he says I’m too needy.
When you put it to him like that, you’re not blaming him, you’re just telling him how you feel and asking for an explanation you can understand. But when he does something selfish are hurt me, I bring it to his attention and just get snobby about it when we were dating and he felt pressured . Ok, he gets off from work and plan to go off with his cousin and he have not taken me out in weeks. He says he needs a woman who is confident that he loves her. I feel like he is pushing me away because he is scared.