2 View All Next »There’s a lot to love about online dating.You take the randomness out of trying to meet people, hoping that fate will guide you to THAT ONE SPOT you need to be AT THAT VERY SPECIFIC TIME in order to meet that special someone.You have control over the impression you want to deliver, from that perfect photo to the charming and witty dating profile that captures and holds their attention. She hasn’t responded to a single email you ever sent… One of the risks (for suitably inflated values of “risk”) that you’re going to come across in the world of online dating is the dating site account that’s dead yet still shuffling around: the zombie profile.Of course, there’s nothing quite so frustrating when you put all of that effort into your profile and start sending out all of those messages… In fact, that’s the reason why so many men quit online dating entirely; who wants to expend all of that emotional energy only to get kicked in the metaphorical nuts by that empty inbox every time you log in? Well, to mangle an old saying: once is happenstance, twice is coincidence, three times means you’re doing something wrong. It looks for all the world like a normal account, but the person who owns it hasn’t logged on in over three months… Sending messages, winks, pokes, flowers or other signs of interest is the digital equivalent to ringing the doorbell of an abandoned house. Zombie profiles litter their account – something that many dating sites make as difficult as possible in order to artificially inflate their numbers.The most common subject line that women receive is a variation on “Hello”: Hey, Hi, ‘sup, Yo, how YOU doin’, etc. If you two have a mutual interest in books, put that in the subject! I’ve always had good responses from “Pirates are inherently better than Ninjas” or “Zombies are superior to Vampires”.You’re here because you want to be naturally attractive to women. You want to live your life, on your terms, doing what you want, and have the women you desire be attracted to you for it. Do you just stand there, fart in her general direction and hope she comes running? I don’t know how well it would work, but you could try it.This means no generic usernames – UTexas09 or Portland77 – or inappropriate ones – anything involving the word Love, Luv or implying that you are the A number one master of orgasms. A clever, attention-getting subject line – especially one that indicates you actually is key.This also means that you need to have an attention-getting subject line to your messages. If she talks about sports, mention sports in the title.
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If a naturally attractive Man banters with her, it’s because he’s in a playful mood and wants to play around.
DHV’s A PUA DHV’s so he can try and impress the girl and get her to be attract to him.
As you’ll see, it’s exactly the same actions that the seduction community teaches but there’s a core difference. It’s this subtle difference that separates the fake PUA from the naturally attractive Man.
And don’t worry if you can’t pick it, I’ll spill the beans at the end of the article. Approaching A PUA approaches because he’s following the 3 second rule and promised his mates he’d do 7 sets tonight.