The practice of engaging in multiple sexual and/or romantic relationships simultaneously with the consent and knowledge of all parties, as opposed to unethical non-monogamy, aka cheating.This is generally regarded as an umbrella term that includes polyamory, open relationships, swinging, solo poly, relationship anarchy, and poly-fi relationships, similar to how queer is the umbrella term that covers gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, etc.Antoinette, a physical therapist, and Kevin, a writer, now say polyamory is a fundamental part of who they are.They both have upper-back tattoos depicting a heart and an infinity sign, a symbol and a constant reminder, Antoinette says, that they’re “doing this poly thing forever.” Now, it’s about convincing others that rejecting monogamy doesn’t make them all that different. I am the norm.” In addition to her husband, Antoinette has a boyfriend. For three years, he has dated Kay, who is pansexual and open to all gender identities.The definitions I used are the most common ones in both my local community and the online world of poly folk as well, but some there is still some disagreement around some of these words.Whether you're new to the poly community, curious about ethical non-monogamy, or mono and just need some translations for when you're around your poly friends, here are seven terms you should know.
Antoinette and Kevin Patterson thought they’d stop dating other people once their relationship got really serious. The parents of two continue to identify as polyamorous, meaning they maintain multiple relationships with the consent of everyone involved.
Considered the opposite of jealousy, compersion is the feeling of experiencing joy because another is experiencing joy.
While we usually use it in reference to feeling joy when a partner is happy about a metamour (aka your partner's partner), compersion is really the antonym for jealous in any context.
That feeling of joy you get when you see a toddler get really excited and joyful? A triad is a polyamorous relationship between three people.
Usually, this refers to a relationship where all three people are actively involved with each other (A is dating B, B is dating C, and A is dating C), also known as a "delta" or "triangle" triad or the more recent "throuple." However, the term can also refer to "vee" relationships, where two people are both dating one person (the hinge) but not each other.