All of which scream to a woman: “Hi, I have zero confidence in myself, which means I’ve failed to meet my own emotional needs, which means I can’t possibly meet yours, either. It sparks overwhelming emotions in a woman that, once set off, she’ll want to explore further. Right qualities (sense of humor, the ability to listen, compassion, activism) and then, no matter how deeply buried or dormant they may seem — take action to uncover, nurture, grow and project them. Needless to say, a man’s confidence is powerful fuel indeed.I had seen her in front of me but didnâ€™t talk to her, instead I read the book and planned my approach.There was some advice in the book that amounted to getting a woman to see your place first but donâ€™t push her to stay, but instead get her out quickly, thus showing a lack of neediness or appearance of trying to seduce her.Take these small steps toward broadcasting confidence to a woman, and it’s almost automatic: she’ll “receive” the message… Right.—————— Acclaimed “Double Your Dating” author David De Angelo has cracked the “secret code” as to why some men are so naturally successful with women…while most endure painful failure and frustration.
~Tokyo PUA (aka Ray Devans)sjohnson: The title “Double Your Dating” is a misnomer. It is focused on picking up babes, attracting them to you like a magnet, and then keeping them on their toes for however long you like.What I’d seen with a lot of the pickup and seduction knowledge out there is a large amount of useful material but trying to piece everything together into a concise format for myself has been daunting.Because of that, was slowly trying to build my own structure and trying to find materials that are a best fit for that kind of learning.So when I talked to her and noticed she was trying unsuccessfully to reach the person she was staying with by phone, I offered her to drop off all her luggage in my hotel and grab a drink or dinner in the meantime.That simple act and then just following all the other advice in the book led to her spending the night and us literally knocking the paintings in my room off the wall at one point!