LOSS of sex drive affects one in five men and half of women at some point in life.They often don’t know how to remedy it but simple self-help techniques can make all the difference.I thought if I said no they’d move on to someone else. We had sex in my bed and it felt really nice but I woke up the next morning to find that he’d gone without even leaving a note. You need to rebuild self-esteem and a bit more self-love before dating again.I enjoy having sex as it makes me feel needed for a while. The men you meet now will just see you as you see yourself – someone with nothing to offer but sex on a plate.My e-leaflet Finding The Right Partner For You will help too. I found I enjoyed being single again but then she started calling me, pleading for another chance. Then she got angry with me, as she hates all my friends. Frankly, it’s not a good sign that she hates all your mates.But first, have a sexual health check to ensure you are OK. She says that she wants to be single so tell her: “Enjoy feeling free! Often on multiple apps at once, users can swipe through dozens of profiles every minute and plan multiple dates, whether in hopes of a love match or a hook-up.
She wants me back whenever I start to move on and I only want her when it feels like she’s gone for good. Yes, you will miss some things about her and about having a committed relationship, but hold on to the reasons you decided to split in the first place.Turn to your friends and give your- self space to find out you can cope on your own and you don’t need a man in your life to have fun.Check out Gingerbread, which offers support to single parents, at uk/community. You can also private message on the Dear Deidre Official Facebook page. Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.