, Dev uses the now-classic line "Going to Whole Foods, want me to pick you up anything?
" It eventually began making the rounds on dating apps for real, so I wouldn’t recommend using it (although even a stolen one joke is better than sliding into someone’s DMs with a vanilla "hi") but you can take a page out of his book.
However, women don't mind waiting — there's only a 5% drop in the chance she'll respond if you wait six hours. ) to respond to messages that were assertive in tone, and a straightforward invitation, like "drinks soon? "Women were 40% more likely to respond if the message somehow involved food. Choose: adult treehouse or the ability to talk to animals? C.'s top two lines — apparently anything cheese-related works on Washingtonians (average of 58% higher likelihood of response): Do you string your string cheese or bite it?
(best performing line) Another data point they examined was how long you should wait to message someone after you get a match. They found men are impatient: If you don't message within six hours of matching, the likelihood that he'll respond drops by 25%. You can only keep one: Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert, or John Oliver? (average of 45% higher likelihood of response): How was your 2004?
I can’t speak for every woman, but if you show up to our date with fancy hummus chips and an overpriced juice I’m yours forever. A good opening message is also the perfect balance of 'friendly enough to text to a friend,' and 'not so familiar that you’re being creepy.' Which leads me to the most important point: don’t be gross.
You’re not off to a great start if your opening line is "I want you to sit on my face" (trust me).
Normally, on Hinge you're free to use whatever opening line you want — it shows you mutual friends and interests then gives you a blank canvas to write whatever you want.
If there’s anything I’ve learned, a simple "hey" will lead to boring, dry convos with someone whose personality you’ll never get a sense of.What's a better line: "How you doin'" or "How you doin'? Sunday priorities: exercise, sleep, or aggressive mimosas? " The dating app Hinge (it's like Tinder but based more on your Facebook friend group) did some experimenting to find out what kinds of opening messages work best once you've been matched with someone. Sunday priorities: exercise, sleep, or aggressive mimosas? Chicago's top two lines are about '90s nostalgia (average of 58% higher likelihood of response): What '90s song would you use as the title of your autobiography? And weirdly, Boston was the ONE city where the standard "Hey, what's up? Choose a dream job: puppy photographer or pizza critic?