The multi-talented team of singers and songwriters infuses vibrant energy into classic praise themes, crafting cutting edge worship music for believers world-wide."In today's world, we spend so much energy being right and proving others wrong," he says in the talk's description.
"Youth, zeal, certainty, ambition ..have the tendency to set the world on fire.
"I gave the impression that there was one formula that you could follow, and if you followed that, you'd be happily married, God would bless you, and you'd have a great sex life and marriage." He added, "Obviously, the real world doesn't work that way." However, the 42-year-old pastor and author said what he regrets most is the fact that he transferred the fear inside of him to his writing. "Fear of messing up, fear of getting your heart broken, fear of hurting somebody else, fear of sex." Harris, who went on to serve as senior pastor of Covenant Life Church for several years, said he finally understood the problems in his book after he stopped being the pastor of a large church and went to graduate school.
"I stopped having to be constantly right about everything," he said.
"For example, there are clear things in statements in Scripture about our sexuality being expressed within the covenant of marriage.
But that doesn't mean that dating is somehow wrong or a certain way of dating is the only way to do things," Harris said.