Just like in the world of dating, looking desperate is not going to get you anywhere in your job search.
When someone sees the glint of desperation in your eye, they question your motives and you lose credibility in an instant.
They stop putting in as much effort and they start leaning on the relationship, more and more.
They stop investing the relationship and start making bigger and bigger withdrawals from the relationship. The question is: How long do you want to go on feeling that?
It’s usually as they start doing this, they start feeling a haunting sensation in the back of their minds. ” I totally understand the fear of losing the person you love. How long do you want to continue feeling like something terrible is about to happen?
What I absolutely do not agree with is that there’s some point where you think that you can stop one another.Anyone that sends the same resume and cover letter email to 20 positions in one day will have to be classified as desperate and recruiters run to the hills when they see it.Simply applying for any job that is out there and even for jobs that aren’t out there is not going to be the way forward.I’ve been seeing this guy who I really like for about two weeks now.He really is the perfect guy and has everything I want in a guy.