If having sex — when we both want to — scares you off, then please, by all means, run far, far away. I have too much on my plate to spend time contemplating what men can and can’t handle. Also I dont like being teased all the time it starts to make me think you are a pric tease and will never give it up just toy with me. After a few cool beverages and some heave petting things can get quite "hot" but no one needs to have regrets in the morning. LOL However on the if we connect again the next time is different. I generally don't go out on "dates" with women that I am not interested in seeing naked. I dated a woman who said to me, "I often sleep with men early, and then I dump them. If the idea of sex with that woman is not appealing to me, we don't call it a date. I really like you a lot, so I would like to wait a little while before we have sex."If she asks me to wait, I will wait. After a month of regular dating, if there isn't some kind of physicality, I'm going to re-evaluate whether or not she's actually INTO me or not.
Mature men have also learned that they do not have to run the whole show and make all the moves and decisions for dating and knowing a woman.
This is generally around the time where you begin meeting one or two friends, or at least at this stage you're considering it.
Family is generally still out of the question, but you should know the basics of their family; parental situation, number of siblings, and general things like that.
Having said that, I suppose I understand the impulse.
In Glamour UK, Dominique Temple writes about how her "number” is eight dates, which she calculated after countless dating disappointments.