Why would this work if your ex doesn’t love you, if your ex can live without you, and if the breakup is not as painful for them as it is for you?None of those reasons are good enough for your ex to even consider getting back together. Are these reasons good enough for you to want them back?Analyzing Answers: If you can realize your mistakes now and can stop yourself from making them again, why didn’t you do it while you still had your ex?
Analyzing Answers: Again, all these reasons are focused on you and not really give an incentive for your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend to want to get back together.
Analyzing Answers: You should only text your ex if you want them back.
If you are texting them to get closure, you are just wasting your time because there is a good chance the answers to your questions will give rise to new questions.
In reality, it takes a lot of work and a lot of time to make real changes in your behavior and habits.
It takes a lot of self-awareness and practice to stop making your insecurity and neediness affect your relationship.