My anxiety will decrease if I know you want to marry me in six years from now! But my longer romantic friendships have been a safe space.
And, unfortunately, not only do you lose the benefits, but you sometimes lose the friend, too.
It started when she was 13, with a boy whose family spent every summer in the same beach town as she did.
(Cute alert.)Over martinis at Cafe Mogador, Casey told me, “When I’m dating someone, my immediate impulse is to be like, ‘Let’s lock shit down!
Like, who do you want to bring to the sex party—your boyfriend or your fuck buddy? I’ve done so many things with fuck buddies that I never would have tried with partners, because I was too much of a jealous monster.
(Like once I let Malcolm tie me to a dresser while I watched him have sex with my best friend.