This is how everything, not just liquor, is sold to men—hand tools, shampoo, Doritos, porn, cars.All of them shamelessly use beautiful, scantily clad women with big boobs, tight asses and long legs as the vehicles to deliver their message. The problem from a mating perspective (besides the obvious ethical one) is that normal women feel this objectification acutely.Some of them are really lame and unattractive and make crude, ham-fisted passes at you. Some of the same male traits that frighten you the most also seem to be the most attractive to you.The guys who pose the greatest physical threat are also the same guys you can envision making you feel the safest.
While this is just a thought experiment, the facts that underpin it are very real. 166 pounds), and he carries less body fat (18 percent vs.
Any one of them could grab you, carry you out of the bar and put who knows what God knows where, and there is little you could do to stop them. But there’s strength in numbers, so you and your friends gather whatever sober courage you can muster and head to the bar. Yes, they are still big and intimidating, but they want to buy you drinks and pay you compliments.
Soon enough, you’ve had a couple drinks, and some of these huge guys approach you and begin talking to you. Some of them are really interesting and fun; they do amazing things with their lives and seem to really be into you. They have that sublime masculine energy that is very appealing.
Here’s the thing, though: when women say, “Don’t objectify me,” they don’t mean “You’re never allowed to look at my boobs or notice my butt.” Actually, they kind of like their boobs and butts, and hope you do, too, if you’re a good guy and you : a savvy customer evaluating your products (traits) and ads (proofs) to see if they’ll add value to her life.
If you want to guarantee mating failure, all you have to do is think of her as nothing more than an inanimate object—as an “8” or a “9,” as a simplistic robot with a set of “triggers” and “hot buttons” to manipulate. You’re single, it’s Friday night after a long week and you’ve decided to go out and have some fun.