If you do, you’ll weed out the guys you are unlikely to be interested in.
I’ll be honest, I’ve received hundreds of emails from guys that clearly never read my profile.
That may seem kind of childish, but I like feeling special. Does he seem to pay attention to your profile and the things you say in email/Instant Messenger conversations? Did he at least wait a while before bringing up sex in your discussions? I ask a lot of questions, so if they’re lying about something, I will eventually catch them. I’ve talked to men that said they went on a date with a girl they met online that appeared to be someone she was not. The waitress (she was new) wasn’t giving us the best service. Let’s just say he noticed every attractive woman that walked in.
In my vast experience at online dating, I’ve learned quite a few things about men and how they respond to me.
A cute, face pic that doesn’t display your body says “I’m looking for love! Do you want a guy that is looking for a long-term relationship? Whatever it is you desire in a man, you need to emphasize this in your profile.
When guys search the member directory for women, they are often able to filter by common interests.
Maybe I’m being a bit arrogant here, but I make a guy work to get with me.
I want to know right off the bat if they’re really and contacting every woman they find.