All of this uncertainty is caused by one simple fact: once a guy gets the vaguest whiff of a woman who might be interested in him, he usually starts doing almost everything WRONG.
) Chemistry is actually the opposite of INDIFFERENCE — also known as the way most guys make a woman feel when they approach her.
Which is why I recommend that men do everything they can to escape the self-defeating doubt and guessing games when they think a woman might be interested…and start looking for the biggest sure sign that they TRULY have a “chance” with her. Like most issues revolving around dating and the “courtship ritual,” it’s what most guys think they know that kills their chances of success.
After an hour (or so) of face-to-face conversation with a woman, ask yourself just one question: “Is she still behaving in a genuinely receptive, ‘friendly’ manner toward me? You see, most guys still think that women exhibit certain physical behaviors…like tilting their heads to the side, smiling as they speak with you, or twirling their hair to show they’re “interested” in a guy. Problem is, these behaviors can be attributed to many other causes ranging from the meaningless to the ridiculous…and none of which have anything to do with your real chances of taking things to the next, more meaningful level.
Basically, if she’s asking insightful, appropriate questions and making meaningful comments about things that you’ve said, you’re golden. Doesn’t matter if she smiles and twirls her hair…if a woman doesn’t interact in the above MEANINGFUL ways, it’s safe to say you have almost no chance of taking things to the “next level” with her. Just remember: all progress begins with that one signal: a woman behaving in a genuinely friendly way towards you (for more than just a “flirty” minute or two).
So skip the mind games that most guys play to figure out if they have a chance with a great woman…and then take action to keep things moving forward.