There is a reason why ancient yogic principles to lead you towards enlightenment involve mantras.Mantras are words that are repeated with the purpose of aligning your thoughts with nature.However, women aged 30 to 50 should not be completely disheartened, because trends are not absolutes.
Also, half of the top 1% are already married so that reduces her pool even further.I often hear clients say, “There are no good men in ______.” (Insert whichever city, the problem is the same.) The client believes that since they haven’t been able to find good men or they aren’t approached by as many men as they were in their 20s or 30s that it means that the well of good men in their town has totally dried up.It’s not a universal problem, it is due to their location, their status, their career, their divorce/kids/etc. If they believe that there are no good men around them they definitely will not see them.If yogis have been repeating Sanksrit words for centuries surely the average woman can change a couple negative words around every now and then. Instead of using phrases like “no, but” try to replace your wording and thoughts with “yes, and…” Even if the negative mantra is only in your head, “I’m too old to find a man,” or “I’m too fat, if I lost 10 lbs.someone would want me,” with supportive, loving statements.