Anyway, at what seemed to be the perfect moment, I swept her into a parking garage and we started making out against a concrete wall. After a minute, she looked at me and said, ” I said. if you’re a guy and just looking to hook-up, then it’s all good, right? Japan consistently ranks at the bottom of countries for frequency of sex, and almost half of all Japanese women flat-out state they aren’t interested in it.
That seemed to be the right answer, and we abandoned playing pool in favor of her apartment, which really made me regret not answering the witch question differently. Even the ones who’ll endure it seem determined to lie there like slabs of tuna and wait for you to finish.
So now your wife’s at home every day, washing the sheets, scrubbing the bathtub, and cooking meals, which sounds all hunky dory, except that she’s going to require the same amount of effort from you. The difference is that men will put forth whatever effort necessary, and settle for a woman who’s boring, poorly educated, unemployed, even unattractive, so long as it results in some sex.
That means you can forget about breezing home at five, ordering an extra-large pizza, putting your feet up, and watching TV. No, you either have to stay at the office until midnight, or come home and get busy. Sorry, I meant, “true love.” My fingers slipped off the keys.
However, American women are of scant interest to me, since I’ve heard that those officious border guards make terrible chaperones. Plenty of Fish (Po F)  gets 4 stars, though they have scaled back the features that used to be free, like knowing if someone’s read your email or being able to have a spontaneous chat session.
It’s by far the largest dating site on the planet, so there’s likely a good group of eligible singles to choose from, better than OK Cupid, from my experience.
Anyway, I just try to present what I’ve learned and experienced in the most authentic way possible, so hopefully others can think about Japan in a well-rounded manner.” This article is an insightful and slightly controversial follow-up to “Is Dating Japanese Women Really That Easy? First of all, understand that very few Japanese women are interested in dating men of other races. Of course, if you hang around in gaijin bars, then yeah, you’ll meet the one-percent of “Japanese chicks who study English.” And they’ll come equipped with tons of stereotypical ideas about white, black, and miscellaneous brown people. Don’t forget to mention your manga collection and the fact you’re a yellow belt in karate. So when you initially meet someone new, you’re already pre-defined as “a foreigner,” someone whose skin color, clothing, habits, and beliefs places them instantly outside of the social order. Or are you just going to peace out back to Canada and live with your mom after a couple of years? Case in point, I ran in my buddy Tim-Bob the other day, having beers in a gaijin bar.
On exploring some of the sites others on here are recommending, my anti-virus program prevented access, warning me that the sites were on a dangerous site blacklist.But the three that I can recommend, with varying degrees of enthusiasm are: OK Cupid -  I’d give this site 3 stars out of 5, mainly because it has fewer members than Po F and it’s not particularily programmable.I’m on the Canadian side of the border, and OK Cupid consistently only offers American gals for display since they are more plentiful and in most cases, geographically closer.Which is a shame, because I was kind of into that whole witch thing.Then a few months later, I met a Japanese girl in a club in Roppongi.