Dating rejection after divorce

As you look back on your life, you will realize that many of the times you thought you were being rejected from someone or something you wanted, you were in fact being redirected to someone or something you needed.

Seeing this when you’re in the midst of feeling rejected, however, is quite tough. As soon as someone critiques, criticizes, and pushes you away – as soon as you are rejected – you find yourself thinking, “Well, that proves once again that I’m not worthy.” What you need to realize is, the other person or situation is NOT worthy of YOU and your particular journey. There isn’t a soul on this planet that doesn’t feel a small fraction of their heart break at the realization of rejection.

“ Women have a tendency to ask this question before men, even though both may be wondering about the answer to this question.

Pushing for an answer; however, may cause real problems in the relationship.

There are 4 predictable stages that couples experience in a dating relationship.

At each stage, there is often a decision (sometimes more thoughtfully arrived at than others) to move forward or to end the relationship.

Stage 4: Commitment or Engagement At this stage in a relationship, couples should have a good understanding of their partner’s values, life style, and goals for the future.Rejection is necessary medicine; it teaches you how to reject relationships and opportunities that aren’t going to work, so you can find the right ones that will. For a short time afterwards you will ask yourself every question you can think of…It doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it just means someone else failed to notice what you have to offer. But then you have to let your emotions fuel you in a positive way! Let your feelings of rejection drive you, feed you, and inspire one heck of a powerful opening to the next chapter of your story.Often (not always) there is not enough “is this the right person for me” but rather more “what can I do to make this person like me?” This stage may last for 3 or 4 months depending on the individuals and their maturity, experience and self-understanding.

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