Wouldn't say I'm resentful personally, I guess a little sad, but I don't think you can blame the individual in these situations.
Cars, hunting, athletics, art, music, higher education, working with their hands to make things.
What would you do in that case besides doing your own thing, which for a young men is video games and porn.
Luckly Im in my 30s now but even when I was a young man, I still witnessed that budding behavior years ago. I don't know why you're being downvoted, you're essentially saying dudes that don't put in the effort to look good, be interesting, and attain goals are falling behind dudes that do put in that effort and you're not know a lot of people from the generatiom behind us where the men are just..lacking.
They don't do anything besides games and porn.
No athletics, hobbies outside gaming/netflix, their grades are poor, and they have no goals.