I would have had sex, if I ever had a "special someone" in my life. However, I'm not gonna beat myself up for it and call myself a loser like others will because I will not lose my virginity because it's not normal for someone my age to be a virgin.
We can't tease someone based on their life experiences.
If he's obviously terrified of women and/or sex, that's a problem.
But if he's a good, decent spiritual man with enough confidence and self-control to wait for marriage when the whole world is telling him not to, that's something to be admired, and I'd like to get to know him.
If that is the case then what would you say to a guy who's over 30 and slept with 1000 women.
Numbers don't mean that he's great in bed, all it says is that he didn't care much for women and just wanted to get off.