First, keep in mind that if your mindset is needy towards the guy or relationship, the amount of time that’s passed won’t really matter. if he went from constant texting to now a full week goes by with nothing, then go ahead and text him.QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life?he might not be talking to you because he feels like it’s an extremely delicate act, like walking on eggshells. He’ll feel that way because he picked up on that energy from the girl.She can do all the “rules” in the book, but if he feels like she’s desperately obsessing over the situation turning into a relationship, he will want to escape (unless of course he also seeking that…) To answer your question, go ahead and initiate contact. if he’s picking up neediness, from you then the damage was already done. And if he likes you and was just caught up and busy, he’ll be happy to hear from you.a woman that has that certain “extra something” that makes you rare and unlike the rest.People are entranced and captivated by someone who has an air of excitement, adventure, and pleasure to them.
And is there any other form of encouragement we can provide that lets him know we are interested in him, but not sitting around helplessly? And yeah, of course, guys want sex, so if you think that sex is the only bargaining chip you have then you will always feel paranoid about men using you.
I would have to imagine you’d answer: “Definitely not.” OK then, if that’s the case then the sex is a non-issue.
Frankly, if you have a pulse, you’re going to have sex with the guy sooner or later.
I’ve been totally cool about it, giving him all the space in the world, no calls, texts, emails.
My Facebook page (which I know he looks at) makes it clear I’ve been out with friends, at events, and that good things are happening at work.