Are you willing to let what is meant for you, come to you?Utilize your attraction skills, body language and eye contact to make approaching you easy and comfortable. I suggest flirting with heavy eye contact, getting close to, maybe even bumping him or walking past him and letting him speak to you.
And while cliché dictates that, sure, men are into it, there’s been some recent research done about younger females often gravitate toward mature men.
Wait for him to call you [not by the phone of course] and end phone calls first. If he isn’t the man you want him to be then it’s better to know sooner than later.
I know it sounds strict and old-fashioned but again, human emotion is powerful. Keep in mind that men are as nervous when dating as women are. Too often women wait until they’re hurt to share their feelings. If you aren’t happy with his behavior don’t see him.
You can make it as easy as need be without seeming obvious. Your only job is to welcome the interaction by being inviting and light-hearted.
Some people might say, well, what does it matter who talks to who? This is advice taken from the infamous self-help book ‘The Rules’ and I believe that it works.