Believe me, it's easy to start thinking about what you don't want versus what you do. Not only can it bruise your ego but it can also bring up all the unhealed rejection that happened earlier in life.It can feel a bit like when you were picked last for kickball or baseball in grade school.The number will usually total up to no more than 2 or 3 mind you.Those stories ring hollow, because they ultimately amount to a futile attempt to amass enough exceptions to disprove the rule.
For many single boomers this is a tough time of year.
I have thought long and hard about my relationship to food (and exercise), and I have started to make some changes in order to remain healthy.
I also have both short and long term goals for doing so. So please save the condescending lectures (and arm-chair therapy) for someone else.
I know I wasn't and in the past, I made huge mistakes that ended up emasculating men.
It's what led me to helping women really understand who men are.