Parents have the final say Wether your Chinese boyfriend will continue to be with you or will marry you depends on his parents.
If parents say no, then it usually is the end of the relationship sooner or later.
You two might be able to work it out with the parents when they get to know you better, but parental acceptance is important even when both are Chinese.
If you two are 25 or older and the parents agree you being together, they will start asking when you two get married.
We are in the process of renovating the old family house for us.Or perhaps your Chinese is as terrible as his English but you want to make it work anyway?Be ready for lot of work and mutual understanding and patience to have a successful relationship.Someone who haven’t even heard about commitment phobia. There are a number of words and phrases that we recommend avoiding, or avoiding in certain contexts and usages.